top of page

ABOUT

Headshot round.png

Hello, I'm Gemma

I help self-aware women rebuild their confidence from the inside out—without pretending, people-pleasing or performing.

Drawing on over 20 years as a professional actor and certified coach, I coach you in embodying what I call Comfortable Confidence: a grounded, honest, feel-it-in-your-body kind of self-trust. The kind that doesn’t need to shout or prove. It just is.​​

Whether you're navigating a life change, stepping into a new role, or just tired of second-guessing yourself, my work gives you the tools, space, and support to finally feel like you again—more present, more grounded, more powerful.

  • Facebook
  • LinkedIn
  • Instagram

MY STORY

I spent over two decades on stage and screen—learning how to stand tall under pressure, speak with conviction, and recover from rejection.

But the biggest lessons weren’t in the scripts I memorised. They came in the moments between roles—when I wasn’t sure who I was without a character to play. Like many women, I got very good at performing confidence.


What I didn’t realise was how much of myself I was editing to stay liked, safe, or successful.

The turning point?

 

Realising I didn’t need to fake confidence—I could feel it.
 

Realising I didn't have to wear confidence like a costume, instead I could own confidence that rooted in a deep trust of myself. That’s what I now call Comfortable Confidence.​

Mrs Conners in Peaky Blinders

GEMMA PLAYING MRS CONNERS
IN PEAKY BLINDERS (BBC)

COMFORTABLE CONFIDENCE

Comfortable confidence is the ability to:

 

  • Take up space without apology.

  • Speak up without second-guessing.

  • Stay grounded even when life gets shaky.​

Now, I help women like you find that feeling too.​ I combine performance tools, mindset shifts, and compassionate coaching to help you release old patterns, reset your inner voice, and reconnect with the version of you that’s been there all along—confident, capable, and completely yourself.​

 

Because confidence doesn’t arrive from becoming someone else. It comes from coming back to you.

Comfortable Confidence

WANT TO WORK WITH ME?

If you’re ready to stop performing and start feeling truly confident in your own skin, I’d love to support you.

  • Explore my low-cost workshop, The Confidence Reset, designed to help you shift old patterns and reconnect with your inner steadiness—Ideal if you’re just getting started.

​​

  • Browse Current Workshops – See what’s on offer right now, including live events, on-demand trainings, and more confidence-boosting tools.
     

  • Or, if you’re looking to dive deeper and explore a more personalised approach, you can work with me 1:1 to build the kind of confidence that lasts—comfortable, embodied, and truly your own.​​​

Let’s help you feel like you again—

only bolder, clearer,

& more at ease.

© 2022 by GEMMA COUSINS, CÓRE COACHING

join my mailing lisT, OH messy one

Bless This Mess.png

Subscribing to be on my mailing list means you will receive my weekly BLESS THIS MESS Blog, which is a place to bless our respective mess and share in the sublime and ridiculous elements of doing life. I also recommend books and podcasts that I think are worth a read or listen to save you having to scour the literary or audio shelves.

It also means you will receive any current offers to include early bird discounted workshop places before everyone else does.

And it's a lovely way to stay in touch, don't you think?

 

Join me, oh messy one, in blessing this mess!

bottom of page